#24 | The Worst Advice We Got After Our Son Came Out LGBTQ (And What We Did Instead)

Heather's husband, Steve, was so blown away by Connor's three episodes that he suggested a recap episode to highlight the emotional journey and lessons learned from their perspective. They both also thought it would be great for all of the resources mentioned to live in one place.

Heather shares:

• An in-depth look at specific moments during their journey
• Which decisions were fantastic and which were underwhelming at best
• Specific takeaways and thoughts to ponder
• A look into her soul the soul of her family

Resources, resources, resources!!!

• Need help finding a therapist for your child or yourself? THIS is a great place to start!
• Support groups for you and your child:
• PFLAG
• Freed Hearts
• The Trevor Project
• National Council on Family Relations
• Colage
• Education - this is a sample - go to my website for MUCH more!
• GLSEN
• GSA Network
• The Family Acceptance Project
• Advocates for LGBTQ Youth
• Understanding Mental Health and Substance Use Specific to your LGBTQ child
• Mental Health - HERE and HERE
• Substance Use and Abuse - HERE and HERE
• How to find an Educational Consultant - HERE 
• Newport Academy
• Want to start a gratitude practice - THIS article and THIS book have valuable guidance
• My favorite meditation teacher and website
• On making mistakes - This article and this Brene Brown YouTube video

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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen explores connection, courage, and community for every concerned parent, mom, or ally navigating fear, grief, and bigotry with hope, resilience, and empathy. Through open-minded education, inclusive parenting guidance, and advocacy for mental health and safety, we support LGBTQ youth and stand for human rights and social justice. More Human. More Kind. empowers listeners to shift their mindset, embrace activism and allyship, and lead with kindness, healing, and purpose.

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