Episode 200

#200 | Why Free Speech is Personal for Parents and LGBTQ Allies

Is free speech really free anymore, or are we watching the First Amendment unravel in real time?

Whether you're raising LGBTQ+ kids, working to become a more informed ally, or just trying to make sense of the noise, this episode breaks down the five essential freedoms that shape our democracy and why they’re all in danger right now. From the weaponization of media to the rise of disinformation, understanding the First Amendment is no longer optional.

  • Learn what free speech actually protects and where the legal and moral lines are drawn.
  • Discover how government overreach, misinformation, and media attacks are weakening core freedoms.
  • Get practical insight into how you can protect your rights and model civic courage for your kids.

Hit play to get clear on what the First Amendment protects, how it's being undermined, and why your voice and vigilance matter more than ever.

Resource Spotlight

  • ACLU’s Protester’s Rights Guide, 
  • PEN America’s Media Literacy Toolkit, 
  • Independent outlets that keep truth alive such as Crooked Media, the AP, ProPublica, BBC, and The Guardian.

Master Bibliography: First Amendment Further Reading

1. Free Speech: Powerful, but Not Absolute

  • The Guardian – US free-speech rights shredded despite Trump vow to be First Amendment champion link
  • The Guardian – US Supreme Court tells lower courts to reconsider two free speech cases link
  • The Atlantic – Why America Protects Hate Speech link
  • Forbes – Your Free Speech Rights (Mostly) Don’t Apply At Work link
  • Politico – Trump: ‘It’s no longer free speech’ link

2. A Free Press: Democracy’s Watchdog

  • The Guardian – Global press freedom suffers sharpest fall in 50 years, report finds link
  • The Guardian – The US used to be the gold standard for press freedom. Not any more link
  • The Atlantic – The press is not the enemy link
  • AP News – West Point is violating the First Amendment with a crackdown on professors link
  • Politico – First Amendment advocates decry settlement in ‘60 Minutes’ lawsuit link

3. Separation of Church and State Protects Everyone

  • The Guardian – Project Blitz: the legislative assault by Christian nationalists to reshape America link
  • AP News – Supreme Court ruling opens door for religious charter schools link
  • The Atlantic – The dangerous rise of Christian nationalism link
  • BBC – Why church-state separation matters in America link
  • The Hill – Christian nationalism poses a threat to democracy, experts warn link

4. The Right to Assemble: Values in Action

  • The Guardian – US intensifies crackdown on peaceful protest under Trump link
  • The Guardian – We are no longer free. But we can win our freedom back link
  • BBC – Black Lives Matter: From social media to the streets link
  • The Atlantic – The protest that could change everything link
  • Forbes – X Sues To Block California’s Anti-Deepfakes Law For Elections (relevant for digital assembly/speech) → link

5. These Freedoms Interconnect—and They’re Under Pressure

  • The Guardian – Civil liberties don’t collapse all at once—they erode piece by piece (analysis on cumulative erosion of rights) → link
  • The Guardian – Global press freedom suffers sharpest fall in 50 years link
  • The Atlantic – Christian nationalism is an existential threat to democracy link
  • Politico – Peter Strzok loses First Amendment case over his firing link
  • WSJ – Free Speech on Campus Isn’t Free (on higher ed and speech battles) → link

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She’s a butterfly in motion—transforming spaces, stories, and hearts. Heather Hester is a rare blend of fierce advocate and gentle guide, using her voice to build bridges across divides. As the host of *More Human. More Kind.*, author of *Parenting with Pride*, and founder of Chrysalis Mama, Heather doesn’t just speak about love, allyship, and authenticity—she *embodies* them.

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Married to the funniest guy she’s ever known and mom to four extraordinary kids (two of whom are LGBTQ) and one sassy mini Bernedoodle, Heather is all about showing up with humor, humility, and heart. You can almost always find her with a cup of coffee in hand—at her computer, on her yoga mat, or dancing in the kitchen to her favorite playlist. She believes in being fully human, embracing the messiness, and helping others do the same.